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Creating A Post-Divorce Budget

Going through a divorce is stressful enough without having to also consider how you are going to make it on your own financially. Even if you are getting child support and/or alimony, you are still missing a spousal income to share daily living expenses.


Now there are two houses to support, and both of you will probably be living on less money than you did in the past. Now calculate raising children and all the expenses that come along with it. I don’t have to tell you the importance of creating a personal budget to help eliminate getting into unnecessary debt down the road.


We have discovered the top two sites to help you create your budget based upon the income you will be living on after your divorce. Both services help manage your finances; one option being free and the other having a minimal monthly charge.


In addition, both of the services we list below are ranked in The 11 Best Personal Finance Software to Get Your Money Swag On, Good Financial Cents, Jeff Rose.


Here are the two services and a comparison of each:

Mint (free): You can log in and connect your financial accounts to most of the major financial institutions, including banks (Bank of America, Wells Fargo), investment companies (Fidelity, Betterment), track all your bills via credit cards accounts, and access your credit score. If you are looking for a more automated way to manage your finances, as well as planning for your financial future, then Mint is the option for you.


You Need a Budget - (YNAB, $5 monthly or $50 yearly): YNAB is a little more into tracking exactly where you spend your money by category to find any wasted dollars in your budget. You can import your transactions at the end of each day as you will need to account for every dollar spent.


YNAB wants you to establish three goals:

1) Target category by balance

2)Target category balance by date

3) Monthly Funding Goal. They give you instructions and define each of the categories. They also have videos on their site explaining how to use their platform.


Both budgeting services are online and have apps for the web, Android, and iOS, making it easy to access your account anytime you want. We advise you to read about each of these services and understand how they secure your data online. Also, take time to research both to see which one will fit your financial needs the best. Over time, I have learned that one of the ways you can help to position yourself to move on from your divorce is to know ahead of time what financial challenges you could face.


As Laura Pilz, financial advisor at Merrill Lynch Wealth Management, says, “One of the fundamental financial planning rules is that oftentimes, when people get divorced, they think they’re entitled to the life they’ve been living. What 'divorce' means is that you’ll get a life that’s 50/50. You’re not guaranteed that you’ll maintain the lifestyle that you’ve become accustomed to.”


Here are 5 Essential Tips for Financial Planning After Divorce, written by Entrepreneur.com's Andrea Murad:


Review your financials and expenses

“Many people get divorced and then they deal with the consequences,” says Pilz. “The people who do this most successfully think about their finances before they sign the divorce decree.”


As you review your financial situation, look at your income sources, expenses, assets and tax situation. While every divorce is different, maintaining two separate households is more expensive than one. “In order for you to know what you have to spend after the divorce, you have to know what you were spending before the divorce,” says Tracy Stewart, a certified public accountant and personal financial specialist in College Station, Texas.


Start by reviewing your past year’s credit card and bank statements. Summarize expenses by category, and create separate columns for Mom, Dad and children. Once you’ve tallied everything, you’ll have a better idea of what you can afford going forward and can decide how to use that money after the divorce.


As you go through this process, if you’ve got children, be sure you can cover their costs, including potential future expenses like braces, cars, insurance and activities. If child support is a part of your budget, remember that this amount can go up as your income increases.

Budget for alimony

The length of the marriage, the possibility that one partner didn’t work and for how long and the assets that that spouse will receive as part of the settlement all determine whether alimony is part of the settlement.


“In long-term marriages where someone hasn’t worked for a long period of time, someone might get permanent maintenance, but this doesn’t always mean 'permanent,' because people retire or may not be able to work,” says Brian Blitz, a principal at Berger Schatz. Alimony may also end if the recipient cohabits or remarries.


Alimony further impacts both people’s budgets and their tax situation. While nontaxable alimony is paid from after-tax dollars and is tax-free to the receiver, most people receive taxable alimony, which is tax-deductible to the payer and taxable to the receiver.


Those paying taxes on alimony need to budget carefully and pay taxes accordingly -- $10,000 per month in alimony, for example, results in a net cash flow of $6,500 to $7,000 per month, depending on the tax bracket and deductions.


Sometimes, your settlement and alimony can be renegotiated, but don’t count on this. If a payer’s income goes down though, “Go back to court and get a reduction. Don’t wait," says Randy Kessler, founding partner of Kessler & Solomiany. "Most states don't have a statute of limitations, and you’ll have to pay it. You can’t go off the hook retroactively.”

Alimony isn’t for forever, though, and recipients have to plan for when these payments will end. “This means you have to get back into the workforce and get training to do this, and get on a budget, so you can save money,” says Blitz.


Plan your career

Getting back into the workforce may seem daunting, but there are many benefits. Your salary will help with your financial plan, and your job will help with your self-confidence, happiness and social life; work is a great place to meet new people. “Think about the long-term projections and not being beholden to anyone else,” says Blitz. “All of those things will benefit you.”


Those who have been out of the workforce for some time may need education or training to obtain marketable skills. “During the divorce, you should be thinking in terms of what you need to do to get a career,” says Stewart. “If you need a degree or training, you negotiate during the divorce for your spouse to pay for this. Often, in a collaborative divorce, your partner will want to see that you can make ends meet; and if you ask for help paying for your education or training, your partner may offer to help, but you have to ask.”


Research the training you’ll need first, along with the cost for any tuition, books, parking, lab fees, computers or printers, as well as the duration for how long it will take.


Consider downsizing your home

People try not to disrupt their children’s lives after a divorce, by continuing to live in the family home. “That’s often the beginning of a very difficult situation because it costs a lot of money and the house is not liquid,” says Pilz.


Moving can be an emotional decision, but your family home is also an investment asset that’s part of your portfolio. Since you’ll have to pay for this home with one income, if your budget’s tight, moving to a less expensive home or renting may be a good option to consider. Factor into your decision how much utility the home provides you.


“If your home is a huge portion of your wealth, it might make sense to diversify your assets,” says chartered financial analyst Robert Stammers, director of investor education for the CFA Institute. “You need to approach it as an investment asset, and you need to make decisions from that context as well.”


Don’t forget health insurance

Health insurance could be a substantial expense if you used to be on your spouse’s policy. COBRA is an option but an expensive one, and it lasts for only 36 months. So begin to look for your own policy even before you’re divorced. “Part of the reason to work again is to help pay for your health benefits,” says Clemens.


Working again will also help bring in the income, professional connections, and self-confidence you'll need after a divorce, hopefully convincing you that there is, indeed, life and financial well-being, even after a divorce.

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